Doubts..faceless killer of relations….

When doubts entered the windows of his heart,

Her love undauntedly marched off from the doors of his life…….

Doubts are like little termites that feed on the peace of mind and destroy the relationship.

It is rightly said,”Love is weakest when there is more doubt than trust but Love is the strongest when we learn to trust inspite the doubts..

A negative thought that may arise in your mind, if not effectively communicated but dwelled upon instead turns into a deadly virus that turns pure love into pure venom.

Doubts are actually like signals that indicate something missing in the relationship which if not perceived in time will chew away the strength of the bond and eventually bring about the downfall of the relationship.

Without trust you cannot have a healthy and happy relationship.


The best thing to spend on your relation is time, conversation, honesty, and understanding.

Doubts arise in our hearts and minds and we hold back from jumping in with both feet. The only way to erase doubts is COMMUNICATION…

Communication to relationship is like oxygen to life.It is fuel that keeps the love in our hearts burning..

If you cannot talk about your doubts,fears or insecurities in the relationship, then it is actually a CRY FOR HELP and a strong indicator that it needs to be worked on…So TALK,SHARE and clear your mind..

Two things that destroy the best of relationships are baseless doubts and poor communications.So save it now or cry for it later coz

In a relationship when communication fades everything else follows.

So dont lose love coz when we lose the people we love,we never get over it.We just get used to it…

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18 thoughts on “Doubts..faceless killer of relations….

  1. Be strong. ๐ŸŒŸโœจ๐Ÿ’ซ

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  2. I agree that communication is the best way to alleviate doubt! Doubt comes from not understanding the other person or believing something that might not be true. When we communicate, we can put these doubts to rest.

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  3. absolutely

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  4. Great post with true wisdom. The closing “when we lose the people we love, we never get over it. We just get used to itโ€ฆ” is so powerful.

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    1. Thanks.something I had read long back and stayed with me ever since…


  5. doubt is a hole in your floor
    and what is more take care
    where you trod
    and look before
    your heart does another leap!~

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  6. Every single line speaks volume. Relationships don’t just evolve in a vacuum. They either survive or fall apart when the issues you raised are duly considered or not. ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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  7. Very difficult to comment, but for me love is not getting attached but being free

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  8. True words spoken and doubt can completely spoil any relationship. Lovely post.

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      1. Welcome ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š


  9. Interesting post, you speak with conviction and sincerity but I think doubts are not always โ€œbaselessโ€ and how do you know that they are baseless? I was in a relationship where I had many doubts, was told after much communication that my doubts were baseless only to find they were true. So for me doubts can be a warning sign.

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    1. I agree.But like I said doubts at most times show that something is missing in the relationship and effective communication might help..but I agree sometimes it really is a warning sign that u r involved with the wrong person..

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  10. Surely one of the most important aspect of relationships you took and displayed it well too.

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