Harsh truths..

We constantly live with the fear of losing someone we love, 
The ones we really cannot imagine our lives without,
But the fact is when we do lose them one day,
We dont ever forget them but learn to live without their physical presence,
And also get busy building more relationships with people we will not be able to imagine our lives without....πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

This has happened to me as well. I used to feel that I will not be able to live without my mom..but when she died I thought I have to be strong for the sake of my father coz I didnt want to add on to his pain and stress of living alone without his companion of more than 45 years by worrying about me and my emotions.
And then he passed away too. After the bereavement, I had to not only adjust to living without their physical presence but also prioritize my time as my kids needed a stable MOM. 
Just when I was thinking about this ,my daughter came and hugged me and said, " Mom , I cant imagine my life without you..."
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17 thoughts on “Harsh truths..

  1. This is the ultimate truth of life. We all come and go at our fixed time. And life goes on

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    1. True but we are never the same after the people we love depart

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      1. I think our lives are richer with their legacy.

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      2. That’s the positive attitude I need to learn…

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      3. It comes with age like wisdom.

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  2. Something lost adds to the value of everything that remains. And the people we love in our lives never fully leave us. When their earthly form transcends, they leave us with every loving touch, gentle kiss, and kind word they gave. And those things live in your hearts forever. It is my hope that when you long for the people you miss, you find them inside you where they have always been, and will always be! Much Love! ❀

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    1. That’s so beautifully described Brad.Thanks

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  3. Nothing can be more painful than losing your parents. It leaves a void for forever in your heart.

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  4. So sad so hard to imagine it, I cannot imagine my life without my mom or dad in it, but I know inevitably it will happen some day, I am not prepared though…

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  5. This is hard true, life not easy as we wish

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    1. Yes .true . Thanks for reading😊

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  6. So true. You may like to read my posts : Time Heals nothing and Naseem is no more

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    1. I am one of ur followers who love to read your posts 😊

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      1. Thank you so much Meena 😊

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  7. Beautiful smile again

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